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Hello Beautiful Soul!
I just had my fifteenth wedding anniversary, and it made me remember a love spell I did once upon a time. So, here’s that story and a few love spells just for fun.
In case you doubted it, yes, love magick works. All magic works, for that matter.
But, it’s important to be particularly careful when dealing with love magick. Here are two big reasons why:
It’s not cool to mess with a person’s free will. Imagine if someone put a spell on you to make you fall in love with them. What if that person was someone you hated? Ew, right. That’s why it’s a good idea to not target a specific person.
When done properly, magick works. So be prepared to actually find love and everything that comes with it. That could even mean heartbreak down the line and all the good and bad in between.
Here’s the story of when I performed a love spell and an example of how things can go wrong and how they can go right.
As a novice witch way back in 1999, my friend came to me and asked if I knew any love spells.
Two red flags came up in my mind right away. The first was, you can’t make anyone fall in love with you, and the second was it’s not a good idea to dabble in magick without fully understanding the consequences. I was thinking about her, but in hindsight, I should have considered this for myself too.
I hesitated because the guy she wanted to do the spell on was the guy I had a crush on. I didn’t want her spell to work. In fact, this “friend” was more of a frenemy than a true friend. We tolerated each other back then, and though I was flattered that she came to me to ask about spell work, I felt all kinds of icky when I was around her.
Plus, she was previously in a relationship with her guy, and they had broken up, so she wanted him back. It felt wrong to me on so many levels.
I hesitated even more when she said she was nervous and didn’t want to do the spell alone, so she asked me to do it with her. As in, she wanted me to do the spell too.
Talk about an awkward situation. 😕
So, we sat down in my tiny living room on my futon bed, lit a candle, and looked through my spellbooks. In the end, we didn’t have all the materials to perform the spells as written, so we improvised.
We decided to write down the name of the person we wanted to fall in love with us on paper and burn the papers in the candle flame while reciting a short incantation.
I watched as she wrote his name on her paper, and then she looked up at me. “Aren’t you doing this too?” she asked.
I had hoped that she’d let it go and not expect me to do the spell too. After all, the name I wanted to write on my paper was the same name she was writing on hers. But she didn’t know that.
“There’s no one I want to put on my paper,” I said instead.
“Just put down Clint’s name. He’s not bad,” she said.
Clint was only an acquaintance of mine, but he hung out with her and her guy a lot. He was definitely not my type, and there was no way I would ever be interested in being with him, so I felt sort of safe writing his name down.
Plus, I was focused on sending out all my energy to make sure her spell didn’t work, so I didn’t care what name I put down. Terrible, I know.
So, we wrote down the names, burned the papers, said our incantation (I focused my intention for him to love me and not her), and we were done.
What came next was a whirlwind. I did end up dating her guy, but it was a total and complete disaster. He literally upended my life in a matter of 3 months. And she dated him again for a short while but ended up with someone else entirely.
And, 7 years later, I married Clint. 😮
Not the same Clint, mind you, but my husband’s name is Clint. Yep.
It wasn’t until sometime after we were married that I remembered the spell I did in my tiny living room on my rickety futon.
The gist of the story is, be careful what you put out there. An intention could very easily backfire, and a spell, whether you want it to or not, could come true.
Clint and I have been married for 15 years now and together for 17. We have 2 kids and three cats and have gone through hell and back together.
Was it that spell that brought us together? I don’t know for sure. I’ve asked him if he feels like I put a spell on him, and he says no. But would he know it? Maybe, in the end, it doesn’t matter what brings you together. What matters is that you’re together.
Have you ever had success with a love spell? I’d love to hear about it!
And so, without further ado, here are a couple of love spells for you!
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